Can A Man Be A Twilighter Too? One Guy’s Tale Of Being Bitten And Smitten

Twilight CoverWhile most people will always remember where they were the moment that Kennedy was assassinated or the O.J. verdict came down, Twilighters can never forget a third event: Where they were when they bought their first Stephenie Meyer novel.

Somehow, the literary phenomenon had escaped me. Much like Pinkberry or Kelis’ “Milkshake” song, “Twilight” managed to capture the hearts and minds of millions while I was obliviously living a life without it. Then in January I interviewed Miss Kristen Stewart at Sundance as part of my job, and much like any day at the “office,” we discussed upcoming projects she was excited about. MTV News ran a brief item on her remarks, and it broke the Movies Blog record for reader comments!

That night, I found myself in a Barnes & Noble, determined to track down this girly novel that Kristen had spoken so highly of, and a few thousand of her soon-to-be-closest friends seemed to equally adore. A half-hour went by as I stumbled from the “Fiction” section to “Fantasy,” from “Romance” to “Sci-Fi,” looking under the T’s for “Twilight” and the M’s for Stephenie Meyer. Being a guy, I’d be damned if I was going to ask for help from some dude in a green apron.

My cell phone rang, and the wife asked what I was doing. I had enough time to explain that B&N must not carry this obscure book, when I suddenly came around the corner to a wall of black covers with hands holding an apple, staring back at me. It was surrounded by books aimed towards tween girls. Above the shelving read the words “Young Adult.”

One side of my brain yelled, “That’s the book!” while the other screamed, “You’re a 33-year-old man in the YA section! You look like Michael Jackson! Grab the book and get outta there!”

As I cracked the novel that evening, my shame turned to shock. I was digging the book – a lot – and found myself immersed in Bella’s Forks experience. It was unlike any vampire story I’d ever read and was refreshing in its determination not to fall into the stereotypical traps of teen romance. “Twilight” was completely unlike the work of my favorite authors (Vonnegut, Bukowski, Palahniuk), yet Meyer’s prose was similarly filled with a clarity of vision, cleverness and knack for dark humor.

Now I’ve read all three books, visited the set to make sure Catherine Hardwicke is on the right path (she is), and love talking “Twilight” with all the fans who visit MTV.com and the Movies Blog regularly. Mike Welch stopped by the studio Tuesday, and he was cooler than the other side of the pillow. A Twilight Mom who knows I have a baby on the way even sent me a plaque that reads “Twilight Dad,” which hangs in my office with great pride. Thanks, Julie!

I am a male Twilighter. I am the creepy old adult who hangs around the Young Adult section. I re-make the book cover in my spare time (see photo). And like so many others, I look forward to someday remembering where I was the first time I ever got to see “Twilight” the movie.

156 Responses to “Can A Man Be A Twilighter Too? One Guy’s Tale Of Being Bitten And Smitten”

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  1. Omg, when you started talking about what it was like to read the book for the first time it really took me back! It was such an amazing experience I don't think I'll ever forget it. Thanks for posting this article! Haha, Twilight Dad!! *Rock on Larry!*
  2. You are definitely not alone! Not only do I know tons of guys who have read and re-read this absolutely amazing book, my little brother also is quite the little fan. He's 12 and reads the book every night after he's done with his homework and before he goes to bed. And we both can not wait for the movie!!! It's an early Christmas present to each of us from each other. lol
  3. Larry Carroll, you are an awesome AWESOME man!

    I really hope that first you see the movie you speak of is at the premiere! You deserve it!!!

    And...you could of course take me with you!
  4. Don't worry, you are not alone :)

    I 'turned' one of my guy friends into a Twilighter, and he enjoys it as much as every fan girl. He's got a girlfriend, by the way,hah.

    I think it's amazing to have guys on the fandom.
  5. Aw, congrats about ur baby larry!!! good luck =]
    and we are glad u picked up Twilight and enjoyed it. theres nothing to be ashamed of!
  6. thank you, thank you, THANK YOU Larry for posting this. I know one of my guy friends who likes the books, and I've been trying to get my boyfriend to read them too. I will certainly show him this :D
    MTV- give Larry a raise!
  7. Larry, i think its awesome that your a fan of the books! Thanks for twilight tuesdays and congrats on the baby!
  8. This article is hilarious! I nearly dropped my laptop when I opened up the picture! Hilarous! I love your writing - very witty.
  9. Yes! I got three...four, five guys into it! and they're all at that stage where guys are 'gay' if they read girlie books, so it was quite a struggle, but I did it! i was so happy.

    I remember when I bought my book. it was september 18, 2007, roughly 10:20, and I was running around after my friend at a book fair in my schools library, asking 'is there romance???' with the book in my hands. i decided to buy the book. it was most likely the best choice i've ever made..
  10. You are so not alone. My 23 year old nephew has read it and is trying to get his fiance to read it as well. My 73 year old Dad read it too! I'm 41 years old and I read the book before it became a huge hit, so what excuse do I have other than just being a huge reader of all things.
  11. I totally support the guy twilighters! Props to you for giving the books a chance! Way to spread the word of twilight!
  12. Dude, no, you are the coolest husband/dad/man ever. These books are my favorite series of all time, and I read them constantly. You should make a T-shirt = )
  13. "he was cooler than the other side of the pillow"
    one of the many reasons we love you, larry :]
  14. Aww Larry! you are the best you should deff get a raise or be promoted! well love you!
    ps. your noy creepy jsut the coolest male adult ever!
  15. dude...you're allowed to read whatever the heck you want...and twilight being the best series ever, i find it perfectly fine if a man reads the series...honestly, if i had a boyfriend i would tell him to read the series or i would at least tell him what it was about...maybe he would try and b more like an edward...but your married so what the hey...keep on rockin man!
  16. Yay Larry!

    I know there are more guy twilighters out there, because a 20 year old guy got me to read the books, and like you I never even heard of them up to that point. (and for the record, I'm 21 and a girl) I read all 3 in 6 days and now I'm hooked and can't wait till Breaking Dawn comes out! And of course, I can't wait for the movie either =)

    I think if more guys admitted to liking this series they would have more girls attracted to them, lol!
  17. Ahhh Larry, you rock.
    Words cannot explain.
  18. LoL, loved hearing your 'guy's tale'...it's very humourous, not to forget awesome to hear you went looking for it. I'm trying to get one of my guy friends to start reading Twilight...I think I pretty much persuaded him, he just has to go to B&N to find it. Lol.
    Oh, and 'the creepy man hanging round the YA section' would easily be cancled out once you tell everyone who you are...or just wear a name tag..'Larry Carroll- Awesome MTV writer/interviewer guy'
    Thanks for keeping us updated.
  19. Yay! I love reading your articles Larry and I love that you have a Twilight Dad plaque! And Wendy I'm totally in the same boat...I never comment on articles like this and I have become a huge fan of Larry and his respect for the book. =) yay for larry!
  20. Your arms?... Clever! I check your blog nightly after work. This one has made my day! Thanks for the chuckle. :) You aren't alone in the green apron experience. After I found Twilight, I bought the entire boxed set, throwing caution to the wind. Now, I can't wait for the movie! It does look like the director and cast are going to NAIL IT! December, Woot! Woot!
  21. go larry! this proves that anyone can enjoy the book no matter their gender or taste in books. Twilight is like no other book out there, it is original and amazing in its own way!! cant wait for teh movieee!!!!!!
  22. Larry = Love.
    Whenever you post something, you totally make my day... and I'm glad to see that your articles are written out of genuine interest from a true "Twilighter". :)
    Keep it up!
  23. Larry,
    Young adult chick book.
    Please turn in your man card today.
  24. Larry, great article. I love idea that your worried you were impersonating Michael Jackson because you were in the YA section. It is totally cool that you...a guy are into the Twilight saga. Can't get enough of Twilight Tuesday. Oh and congrats on the soon to be daddyhood.
  25. LARRY = LOVE.
    Seriously- every time you write a new article it always makes my day! And it's so good to know that it's coming out of genuine interest from a true "Twilighter". :)
    Keep 'em coming!!
  26. My wife got me into the series, and I'm really enjoying it. Nothing says a 26-year-old guy can't enjoy the books, right?
  27. if only i could get the males in my life to read twilight!!
    Good for you Larry.
    but honestly, if i saw some 30 year old dude next to me in the YA section, i'd probably leave. hahaha!
    congrats on the baby!
  28. LMAO! That was funny! I seriously wish Icould get my dad to read the books... LOL, that would be awsome...You rock Larry :D
  29. Awh, Larry, you sweetie :) I wish I could get the guys I know to read Twilight 'cause I've turned all my female friends into complete Twihards.

    You're awesome Larry :D
  30. Thanks you really need to encourage all those guys out there who think there gay for even saying twilight!
  31. Haha I always like reading your blogs because they're different and have some humor. Nice re-make cover haha! Unfortunately, I don't know any guys who would read twilight
  32. My brother loves Twilight too!

    And I've even seen a few guys around school with the book under their arm.


    It's so cool to know that their are Twilight guys out there!!!

    Thanks Larry!
  33. I knew there was a reason I liked you Larry!

    "cooler than the other side of the pillow" HaHa...That is awesome :D
  34. I laughed out loud a little bit and I totally love that you're on our side!! Congratulations on the baby!
  35. We love you Larry! You are absolutely a Twilight Dad!
  36. I love you, Larry! You're so funny! Made me laugh! "Being a guy, I’d be damned if I was going to ask for help from some dude in a green apron." LOL
    Now, seriously, thank you so much for your special attention to twilight. I aprecciate it!
  37. Larry you are the greatest! We love you!
  38. Dearest Larry,
    Congratulations on your soon to be arriving baby, better get some sleep now.
    Thank you for sharing your journey with us. You are the MAN!! I know of a few men/boys to read the books and they like a good story too regardless of where it's located in a book store or library. It's just a great joy and pleasure to know that the person reporting on the story is also a fan. Okay, I'm also old enough to remember when MTV didn't have commercials and you had to live "in" city limits to get cable. You have brought me back to my roots and my "youth". Thanks for all your work, I look forward to Tuesdays so much more than I used to! Keep up the good work, I/WE LOVE YOU LARRY!!!
  39. Larry, Are those your hands? Tee-he-he, hilarious and so fitting! I never knew guys liked this book. This is great! Welcome to the party!
  40. lol
    LOVE
    the fact that you read twilight they are just amazing books that will take your breath away =]
    and i found it funnyn when you were thinking:

    “You’re a 33-year-old man in the YA section! You look like Michael Jackson! Grab the book and get outta there!”

    And i give you my props because you came to love twilight and that i reward you
    lol
    hey all the guys should get a round of applause because they actually love twilight like must of us ladies do
    lol
    you guys rock !!!
  41. lol
    LOVE
    the fact that you read twilight they are just amazing books that will take your breath away =]
    and i found it funnyn when you were thinking:

    “You’re a 33-year-old man in the YA section! You look like Michael Jackson! Grab the book and get outta there!”

    And i give you my props because you came to love twilight and that i reward you
    lol
    hey all the guys should get a round of applause because they actually love twilight like must of us ladies do
    lol
    you guys rock larry !!!
  42. hey larry u not alone i may only be 14 but i got all my freinds boys and girls and my uncel to read it and they all love it
  43. Very nice work if my she ever makes the book in Edwards POV you could always have her use your cover for it lol congrats on finding the greatest book!
  44. Well Larry, you could've just turned the apple over to hide your guilt, lol (I keed, I keed ;-)). I thought the 'half hour' searching had me, until you delivered this line:

    "One side of my brain yelled, “That’s the book!” while the other screamed, “You’re a 33-year-old man in the YA section! You look like Michael Jackson! Grab the book and get outta there!”

    ...I wish I could've caught that on camera, lol! Like Edward, you had your own inner turmoil moment. To see the look(s) on your face, ahahaha, it would've been priceless! :D *group of mom's stare at Lare"
  45. i love this article,
    i love that you're a twilighter,
    and i love you larry (:

    (ps, congrats on the soon to be baby twilighter!)
  46. I've got to hand it to guys like you, Larry, that are not afraid of saying that they read and actualyl LIKED Twilight. Yes, it is directed toward mainly the young, female demographic, but, to appeal (and might I dare say widely) to males in a way that makes them about as obsessive as we (the female demographic) are is amazing and a true test of her talent as a writer.
    Besides, we ladies get Jacob, Edward, Emmett, Jasper and Carlisle and you gentlemen can have Bella, Rosalie, Alice, Esme, and Leah. It's fair trade, if I do say so myself! :)
  47. you are now on my list of extremely cool people.
    i have guy friends who only call me at night to talk about The Books because they dont think its "manly" enought. but i cant wait to show them this article.
    i am just so enthralled with you!
    i love that you are not just reporting on the movie but you actually read the books.
    i officially love you
    KaMeesha Barker
    *by the way im deff not a "tween" i hata that word. im 18 and will be reading about edward and bella until my heart stops beating
    *fingers crossed*
  48. Me and my friends made our friend Daniel read twilight...he liked it but we all loved it so much and talked about it so much he got a little jealous of edward
    then last week I had my friend Andrew read it, believe it or not he actually asked if he should and then once finished with it, he asked for the next two books!
    and he's not the kind of guy that would normally be into something like Twilight

    it's awesome you love it too Larry
  49. Haha, Larry your amazing!
    && Congrats on almost being a Twilight Dadd! :)
  50. The picture is awesome Btw!

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